Sex Outside the City: Sex Outside the City hosts private house parties in Vallejo, for discreet, bi-friendly, couples, women, and select single men.  Our guests are positive and respectful people, who enjoy safe adult fun. Our parties are open to people of all races, all ages, and all body types. If you fit these criteria, please contact us to get on the invitation list for future parties.
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Sex Outside the City hosts private house parties in Vallejo, for discreet, bi-friendly, couples, women, and select single men. Our guests are positive and respectful people, who enjoy safe adult fun. Our parties are open to people of all races, all ages, and all body types. If you fit these criteria, please contact us to get on the invitation list for future parties.

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We would love to attend a party!

Hello, We would love to attend one of your partes. We are a very sensual attractive diverse young couple new to the lifestyle and would like to enjoy ourselves with like minded people. Please send us information on how to register or be screened for events. Thanks...email: ellen.ellens@yahoo.com

hi i would like to share

i would like to attend your parties,how can i do that? my email is magamo20002yahoo.com..before on the past i went to morgan hill but it doesnt exist anymore,im single now and i would to share your place

It was fun but...

I'd say that there was a mix of BBW, BHM and HWP @ the parties we went to. Our biggest issue was age difference. We were in our mid and late 20's and it seemed everyone else was in their 40's or 50's. The other issue was everyone there was VERY cliquish. If you didn't already know anyone you weren't getting the time of day. If you can get into the inner circle you will have fun. If not you'll just end up sitting around and watching until you go home

Very nice people but VERY OBESE

We got there early and it seemed that every couple that came in after us was fatter then the couple before. Had great conversations, but absolutely no chemistry b/c we couldn't get over the fact that the ladies were over 180 lbs. I love watching my wife with another guy, but these people really grossed us out. We wound up going back to our hotel and getting it on by ourselves - after a few laughs. If you are overweight, you will be among friends. If you are HWP, PASS!

Hostess posts ratio info...

We went to many SOTC parties and they never have more than a ratio of 1.5 men for every woman...she even posts the details online for all to see. I can't believe was was written below because I have looked ovefr the last 3 years worth of monthly party info and havent seen a single party over that ratio. Some people need to actually ATTEND before they make comments. we even know of other party hosts who reccomend SOTC. Sex Outside The City is a classy well organized fun social group of people in their 30s (or so) who know how to have fun!!!

The best party we have ever been to.

We are a young hwp couple and we went to the February party. Without exception this was the best party we have ever been to. Having gone to a lot of parties in the area, SOTC is definitely the one we will be going back to. There were more women than men, and most people were very attractive to us. (something we have never seen before anywhere), and the hosts are awesome. We have already RSVP'd for the schoolgirl party next weekend!

Dump avoid ! Single guys overcrowd

We are a young couple and went there and although the hosts and people were nice but it looked as if most of the people were the loser unattractive fat couples who could not get any fun any more in life. There were too many single guys wagging tail like dogs for the very few ladies . If you dont have any option in life, only then consider this. This is for the fat and ugly people and loser single guys only

Looking forward to next time!

We have been to some SOTC parties and we love going back every time. The hosts are warm and welcoming and the atmosphere is very relaxing and fun. We SO look forward to going back again and again. Thanks SOTC!

Pajama Party was awesome

What a great group of folks. We have been to twist and arena and some other parties, and we enjoyed those, but sotc's pajama party on Saturday was in a different league. it was intimate, friendly, social and sexy. The thing that stood out most, was that unlike other parties we have been to, there was not a single man standing around masturbating. The host and hostess obviously have a good judge of character for selecting quality people and the right numbers of men and women for a great party.

Went to the Dance Club Meet

What a cool couple. My wife and I enjoyed meeting the hosts and other members. Everyone was friendly and sexy!!! We cannot wait to get to a party now. We have our eye on a few members, hope to see them again soon.

Can't wait to go back

September Schoolgirls party was a blast. Very diverse group of sexy folk, great food and most important - very clean! Thank you SOTC for a great party. We are still talking about it. Can't wait for the next one!

Strip Club Meet&Greet 4/14/07

What a great club selection - the club was classy and fun. Perfect spot for a meet. Even the food at the strip club was top notch. It was a great way to meet other members, we all got really cozy in no time. Can't wait for the party on the 21st!

Schoolgirls Party Was Awesome!

Thanks J&J - Great party as always! Can't wait for the strip-club meet & greet and the next party. I will be there for sure! Also how do I subscribe to the newsletter? M

First-timers - Everything was very tasteful and relaxing.

The circle is a great idea...I think it basically represents the start of the party. Once the introductions were made the party really got going. Actually I was very impressed with the whole thing...there was always plenty of everything that anyone could need...wipes, condoms, towels, food, drink, etc. You guys are great hosts...The party was very comfortable, inviting and sexy!!!! I would most definetely recommend this to a friend. D

Only way to know.....

Is to attend one yourself and find out. We did, and return every month, we are addicted. After searching all over the Bay area we know SOTC is the place to party. The people we have met through J&J are a class all their own. We are not surprized other clubs attempt to copy them, but there really is only one SOTC! C&E

Too bad some have to LIE

It is very obvious that the sucess of the SOTC party group has spauned some HATERS. That would be the pathetic liars that have posted false reveiws about the group. I have been to more than a dozen of these parties, and will tell you that they really know how to host a play party. Great food and lots of play area in a social setting where you can really feel comfortable getting to know new people before you play together. The host and hostess know everyone by name and personally greet all guest in and out of the party. I have been to 3 other groups for play parties, and will say that SOTC is by far our favorite. So who ever is posting the slander and false reviews.....GROW UP AND GET A LIFE! E&L

What kind of professional people do they let in here?

I read a post below that concerns me. "In my profession, this kind of stuff is not tolerated because it can get someone killed." Uhhhh, who is this and why are they here? What does this have to do with this lifestyle?

SEX-LESS OUTSIDE THE CITY

We have to agress with the other post, its good to see the host have friends to lie for them or write the post themself but SEX OUTSIDE THE CITY---NOT-- We didnt stay long this was a great,great waste of time and money, we will never go back

You have a mind of your own? Use it and you'll see for yourself what is real.

In my profession, this kind of stuff is not tolerated because it can get someone killed. I am referring to false information. I could sit here and talk up a storm about how great SOTC is, and they are. Then some other person could write some unfounded falsehood. People in general will believe the later with out any proof. Well our justice system says otherwise and I suggest the same t you. If you really want to know what SOTC is like, find out for yourself. Go to a MnG, talk to the hosts and the members. Join the forum and read the comments. I think that if you do, you will see it for what it truly is and not what someone else wants you to believe. Make your own choice; at least in this country you can and won't get killed for it. ~L Posted on 200702190948 GMT

Is the glass half full or half empty?

I am not much of a writer/reviewer for websites like this one, but I feel compelled to make my voice heard. SOTC is the BEST, safest, most caring and most engaging group I have ever been part of. I am a single guy and I have had nothing but a great time 99.99\% (.01\% is because I need the rest!). Socially, it is a mixed crowd which is in itself the strength of the group----it adds spice to the experience. As for the play time, the SOTC zone is CALIENTE and the players are so much fun. For example, during the last party, I was having a great time with a single girl. At that time, another girl was on her way out of the party ( we had played earlier). The second girl came by to me and planted the wettest and most succulent kiss on my lips. That was her way of saying "see you, soon". This raised my blood pressure and it made the rest of my playtime much more enjoyable. There will be another event happening this Saturday and I can't wait for it. SOTC rocks! Rico

I attended a meet & greet and wasn't impressed.

They say "select single guys" but they invited over 30 single guys to the Meet and Greet and only selected 3 back to the party. Two were friends of the hosts. It doesn't matter how polite or engaging you are. They will go around and tell you how much they enjoyed meeting you and the next party your welcome to attend but the next morning they reject your from the club saying your not a good fit. So the rest of us were left there, horded together, as this group of people head out for fun. Seems to me, good hosts would know better then to invite so many singles to a meet and greet when they don't have the space.

New Years Bang was a blast!

OMFG what an awesome party! So many hot scenes and experiences. The dark room was awesome. I was an apprehensive newbie before tonight and now I am hooked! The hosts made a very welcoming and comfortable environment. The house is really nice. The food was very classy, the wine was flowing and everyone was so friendly. Can't wait for the next one. Frank

SOTC - Thoughtful group & Great parties!!!

I have been involved with SOTC since AUG 2006 and I have found them nothing but high class. They carefully screen all there members ans have some really fun parties. If you go and don't enjoy it then it is because of your own choice. They respect everyone and say so at the outset. What you do at thier parties is up to you ... no harm, no foul. I went on 10/14 and had a blast. Was there until the sun came up. I have even suggested them to others I know that would enjoy it. They are an 11 out of 10 in my book!!!

Had an awesome time.. Toga Toga!

I don't know who gave the negative review but all I can say is that I've been active in these events for over 6 months and the host and hostess are top notch. I didn't see anyone not having a good time that evening and can't fathom anyone who was actually there writing such a negative review. J&J are awesome! V.

SOTC Rocks !!! Best play parties by far

I recently came acrossed a negitive post about this unbeleivable fun group. The parties are as good as they get with everything from the huge food and snack spread to the classy place it is held. The members are very sexy, frendly, social and real down to earth people. If who ever wrote this comment truly attended a SOTC event and couldn't have a good time, then I don't beleive they have a very good chance of having a good time anywhere. Leather Man

What a way to spend the night!

When I come to the SF Bay Area, it's on Saturdays' after a long flight from Europe. I need a very nice way to stay up late to get over jet lag fast. Coming to J&J's parties was a discovery for me. Now I can enjoy staying up until late, having a great time, both socializing with the bunch of guests (some regulars, some newcomers) as well as enjoying some wild, fun, sex in a very comfortable, and safe, environment. It's easy to come there for the first time. They make you comfortable. You get introduced to the other guests... and things go very naturally. It's a great place. My only regret is that it's a bit far from where I usually stay in the Bay Area... but can't help that one. G

Ignore the liars - SOTC is the place to be!

I have been an SOTC member for almost 2 years and I was at the Toga Party on 10/14/06 (as well as many others). The review prior to this one title "Was it really worth it" should be considered slander - because it is a complete falsehood. The author lied about coming to that party because that review has not a single piece of truth in it. The author has also never met J&J. These guys are two of the most wonderful and giving individuals alive. Nobody who knows them, would ever say the parties are "more about the host". They have gone out of their way to make a comfortable and safe environment for erotic exploration. This person must be someone who was denied access/banned from the SOTC group and are using this board to anonymously lash out at J&J. If anything they said were true, they would put a name on their review Everyone who went to that party was naked and had fun. The hosts were running around handing out bottled water all night because EVERYONE was playing all night. SOTC Parties kick ass and certain other party hosts need to come to an SOTC event to see how parties should be done. In fact I have met several party hosts at SOTC parties and they have had nothing but good things to say about it. - Susan P.

Ignore the liars - SOTC is the place to be!

I have been an SOTC member for almost 2 years and I was at the Toga Party on 10/14/06 (as well as many others). The review prior to this one title "Was it really worth it" should be considered slander - because it is a complete falsehood. The author lied about coming to that party because that review has not a single piece of truth in it. The author has also never met J&J. These guys are two of the most wonderful and giving individuals alive. Nobody who knows them, would ever say the parties are "more about the host". They have gone out of their way to make a comfortable and safe environment for erotic exploration. This person must be someone who was denied access/banned from the SOTC group and are using this board to anonymously lash out at J&J. If anything they said were true, they would put a name on their review Everyone who went to that party was naked and had fun. The hosts were running around handing out bottled water all night because EVERYONE was playing all night. SOTC Parties kick ass and certain other party hosts need to come to an SOTC event to see how parties should be done. In fact I have met several party hosts at SOTC parties and they have had nothing but good things to say about it. - Susan P.

was it really worth it

We attended the party on 10/14/06 and to be honest it was a pure waste of time, we understand why they dont have any reviews, the party seam to be more about the host and not the people that attended, messgae to the host you might want to stop and go to other places and see how to have a good party

Amazing 1st party

Thank you to S.O.T.C. This was the best party I've ever attended. Everyone was so cool and nice and not to mention sexy as hell. J an J are excellent hosts. Thier house was very warm and inviting. Look foward to many more parties there. S

Anything going on this Sat?

Hi, We are a couple but she is going out of town to her mothers this weekend and I am realy wanting to find a good party to attend that would allow a handsome tall non pushy guy to come and play...Do you guys have something going on this weekend?

The best Bay Area Parties

Wow! What a party. J&J are the best hosts you could ask for. The food, drinks and supplies were plentiful and very high quality - They don't go cheap! The ratio was even and the people were a very good social and play crowd. J&J have created a very sexy and safe party environment in a great party house. We went to the April, May & June parties and we are going again tomorrow to the July party! Can't wait!

Awesome parties

Cool social vibe. Very sexy people. Lots of play areas. The darkroom was a lot of fun. Bathroom was clean and fully stocked. The hosts are very gracious! Good ratio. All supplies top quality from condoms to mouthwash. Good food and drink. The punch is to die for. Looking forward to the next one! - Michelle & Don



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